Are you curious about exploring the world of kink? Or perhaps you’re seeking guidance to better understand and embrace your desires? At The Pincus Center, our coaches provide a supportive, judgment-free space to help you navigate your journey safely, confidently, and with a deeper sense of self-awareness. We offer practical advice, emotional insight, and community guidance.
If you’re just venturing into the kink world, we can help you take those first steps with confidence! Our coaches can help you understand kink dynamics and find local events and safe spaces where you can explore at your own pace. We’ll teach you how to assess the safety of events and groups, spot red flags, and find inclusive spaces that honor consent and diversity. Not sure what you’re into? That’s okay. Together, we’ll explore what excites and inspires you, what boundaries you need to feel safe and respected, and what doesn’t work for you.
Take the first step towards self-discovery and connection. Together, we’ll uncover what brings you joy, navigate challenges, and create a roadmap for your kink journey. Schedule a free 20 minute consultation now!

Coaches at The Pincus Center are here to offer a safe, inclusive, and empowering space where you can explore and grow. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to deepen your understanding, our approach is always compassionate, non-judgmental, and grounded in respect for your journey. We can help you explore where your kinks may have originated, understand the emotions tied to your desires, make empowered, risk-aware, consensual choices that align with your values.
Perhaps you’re well established in your kinks, but you’d like some advice on dating in the kink world. We know that requires clear communication, trust, and consent. That’s why we provide practical tools to help you establish your boundaries and communicate them effectively and build connections rooted in mutual respect and shared understanding.
Pre-recorded Classes
BDSM Mega Bundle
Classes from sex therapist and kink educator AJ Cheyfitz, sex and kink educator Katy Harrison, and sociologist and certified sex educator Dr. Eli Sheff offer a wealth of information to individuals and clinicians alike. From covering the basics to diving in deep, it’s all offered here. Get over $100 off by buying the bundle instead of individual classes!
Details
This bundle includes the following classes (valued at $385):
- Anxiety and Kink: Navigating Community, Scenes, and Relationships
- BDSM Negotiations
- Beyond the Bedroom: Incorporating D/s Dynamics into Everyday Life
- Distinguishing between BDSM and IPV
- Healthy Hurting: BDSM with a History of Self-Harm
- Humiliation Without Body Negativity
- Serving It Up Hot: The Basics of BDSM Service Relationships
- Topping for the Nervous Beginner
- Vetting and Safety in the Kink Community
- We Don’t Bite (Too Hard): Getting Involved in the BDSM Community
By purchasing, you gain access to each class recording. When possible, the audio and chat transcripts, resources, and any other handouts that came with the classes will also be provided.
Sliding scale not available for bundles as they are already a reduced rate.
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