When We Believe We Are Unloveable

Many of us walk through the world struggling with the belief that we are unloveable. Often it is hard to even figure out where this message comes from. It starts early when we are young and feel for whatever reason like we haven’t been accepted or loved by those...

What To Do if You Are The One Accused of a Consent Violation

  These days I am encountering a lot of issues where people in various communities to which I belong are being accused publically of consent violations or being abusive in their romantic relationships. This is actually something which we are all susceptible to....

Lessons from a Sex Therapist Parent

I spent this weekend binge-watching the new Netflix series Sex Education. In the series the main character is a teenage son of a sex therapist single mother. I thought this might be a good opportunity to talk about some of the good things and not so good things that...

What sex is healthy?

So now that you have been looking at our webpage and seeing the kind of work that we do you may be wondering to yourself, how do we define what is sexually healthy? This is a really important question and it is one we have to think about a lot. It is easy to make...