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SUMMARY:Safe Space NOVA’s Pride Prom
DESCRIPTION:The Pincus Center is a proud sponsor of this night of affirmation and validation for DMV queer and trans youth\, amidst a political backdrop of control and erasure. Safe Space NOVA Prom Student Ambassadors have selected Starry Night as this year’s theme. \nCommunity discount code: $$ThePincusCenter
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/safe-space-novas-pride-prom/
LOCATION:Torpedo Factory Art Center\, 105 N Union St\, Alexandria\, VA\, 22314\, United States
CATEGORIES:LGBTQ
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SUMMARY:Alexandria LGBTQ+ Pride Fair
DESCRIPTION:Find our table at Alexandria’s LGBTQ+ Pride Fair for free goodies!
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/alexandria-lgbtq-pride-fair/
LOCATION:John Carlyle Square Park\, 825 John Carlyle Street\, Alexandria\, VA\, 22314\, United States
CATEGORIES:LGBTQ
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SUMMARY:Cultivating Satisfaction in Non-Monogamy
DESCRIPTION:In celebration of the Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy\, join a workshop that focuses on joy in different relationship structures. \nSign up for this workshop on our Eventbrite page!\nMost people have a hard time getting started in consensual non-monogamy (CNM) relationships because it is a shift from the style of relationship management they grew up with. In celebration of the Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy\, learn from the research on relationship satisfaction in polyamory and CNM and gain insight to make your relationship more joyful. The dynamic duo of Tamara Pincus\, LICSW and Dr. Eli Sheff bring research and lived experience together to chart the ways in which CNM relationships fall on hard times and how to weather the challenges while making the most of the good times.  \nAASECT Objectives: \n1. Identify 2 research findings about consensual non-monogamy \n2. Name 2 strategies for increasing satisfaction in non-monogamous relationships \n  \nTamara Pincus\, LICSW is a licensed clinical social worker and AASECT certified sex therapist who runs The Pincus Center which offers therapy\, coaching and sex education. She specializes in working with kinky\, polyamorous and LGBTQ clients. Tamara has been working in the field of sex therapy since 2011 and since then has built a practice with a team of 11. Tamara is passionate about racial justice\, fat justice and LGBTQ rights. She also co-authored a book titled “It’s Called Polyamory: Coming Out About Your Non-Monogamous Relationships” with Rebecca Hiles. She lives in Virginia in a queer polyamorous household of chaos. \nDr. Eli Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children\, and has more than 25 years’ experience researching consensual nonmonogamies. Dr. Eli has a PhD in sociology and is a Certified Sexuality Educator who has written four books and 30+ academic articles on CNM and BDSM/kinky sex. She serves as a relationship coach\, educator\, and expert witness. She has appeared on hundreds of podcasts\, television shows\, and media interviews with outlets from NPR\, National Geographic\, and the New York Times\, to Cosmopolitan and Savage Love. Dr. Eli blogs for Psychology Today and always wants to make friends with dogs. \nThe Pincus Center for Inclusive Treatment and Education specializes in working with queer\, transgender/nonbinary\, kinky\, and ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous people. We value sex positivity (including asexuality)\, body positivity and fat liberation\, and racial justice. \nThe Week of Visibility is a shared\, movement-wide activity being coordinated by OPEN\, a grassroots advocacy nonprofit working to advance rights and acceptance for non-monogamous families and relationships.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/cultivating-satisfaction-in-non-monogamy/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Classes,Nonmonogamy
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ORGANIZER;CN="Tamara Pincus":MAILTO:tpincus@tamarapincus.com
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DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260708T213000
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-6/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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SUMMARY:Celebrate 15 Years of The Pincus Center!
DESCRIPTION:We’ve been doing healing work with LGBTQ+\, non-monogamous\, kinky\, and neurodiverse communities for 15 years. It’s time to rejoice. \n\n\n\n\nCome celebrate the 15th anniversary of The Pincus Center! An evening of festivity alongside colleagues and friends\, featuring face painting and arcade games. Part networking and part silliness at the coolest spot in Alexandria\, Continues Arcade. Ticket price includes a drink ticket\, appetizers\, and game tokens. All proceeds go to Safe Space NOVA. \nSign up on our Eventbrite!\nThe Pincus Center for Inclusive Treatment and Education specializes in working with queer\, transgender/nonbinary\, kinky\, and ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous people. We value sex positivity (including asexuality)\, body positivity and fat liberation\, and racial justice. Our clinicians provide therapy\, coaching\, and education to people in DC\, Maryland\, Virginia\, and beyond. \nSafe Space NOVA is a community-centered non-profit dedicated to supporting LGBTQIA+ youth ages 13-17 through educational\, leadership\, and social programming. We strive to create empowering spaces where LGBTQ+ youth can build community\, while accessing resources that support their emotional well-being and personal growth. Our programs include monthly social hangs (including a biweekly RPG!)\, queer sex education workshops\, allied provider training\, and our annual Pride Prom. Safe Space NOVA also partners with local organizations\, families\, and advocates to strengthen visibility\, representation\, and support systems for LGBTQ+ youth across Northern Virginia.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/celebrate-15-years-of-the-pincus-center/
LOCATION:Continues Arcade\, 1050 N Fayette Street\, VA\, 22314\, United States
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ORGANIZER;CN="Tamara Pincus":MAILTO:tpincus@tamarapincus.com
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260812T200000
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-7/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260815T140000
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SUMMARY:Make a Splash! A Fabulous Fat Pool Party
DESCRIPTION:Come play in the sun with other fab fatties & allies at a private\, inclusive party for adults by body-affirming professionals & activists. \n\n\n\n\nSign up on our Eventbrite!\nBust out your cutest suit and bask in the summer sun with a few dozen gorgeous fat folks at a pool party created just for us! Splash\, swim\, and luxuriate in the coolness of a totally private pool\, make new friends and bring your own\, and indulge in summery snacks and cold drinks. It’s a no-judgment zone where you can be at home in your whole body. \n(Remember the pool party scene in Shrill? We loved it so much we decided to make it happen!) \nWe are The Pincus Center for Inclusive Treatment & Education\, a queer-inclusive\, sex-positive\, and body-affirming therapy and wellness practice. We host educational and supportive events to build local community. \nThe party’s happening in the backyard of a private residence with a very large in-ground pool and plenty of room to socialize. There will be refreshments (snacks and soft drinks) on the back porch. Bring your own towels\, coverups\, sunglasses\, and sunscreen. You’ll get the address in your confirmation email. \nQueer\, trans\, and polyamorous/non-monogamous folks of all genders are encouraged to attend! And yes– your straight-sized partners and friends are welcome as long as they understand that this space centers the comfort and safety of fat folks. 18+ please– while this is pretty innocent fun\, we want to make a space for adults to enjoy adult company. \nLet the sun shine on your skin and let’s revel in having a place to enjoy summer fun together! \nHow can I help ensure that this feels like a safe\, welcoming space for everyone? \nGreat question\, thanks for asking! A couple tips: \n\nAvoid talking about diets\, intentional weight loss\, weight loss surgery\, or similar topics that could be triggering to others.\nTry not to engage in negative self-talk about your body\, how you look in a swimsuit\, or how much you’re eating. We want to keep the vibe upbeat and stay neutral about our bodies and eating habits today!\nGive your pronouns when you introduce yourself to a new friend\, and make sure you remember and use theirs.\nDon’t touch anyone without their clear and enthusiastic consent unless they need to be saved from drowning.\nBe careful how you’re complimenting other people– flirting is great\, but fetishizing people isn’t.\nIf you’re bringing a straight-sized partner or friend with you\, please talk to them about what it means to center the comfort and safety of fat folks and make sure they’ve read these tips.\n\nThe Pincus Center for Inclusive Treatment and Education specializes in working with queer\, transgender/nonbinary\, kinky\, and ethically non-monogamous/polyamorous people. We value sex positivity (including asexuality)\, body positivity and fat liberation\, and racial justice.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/make-a-splash-a-fabulous-fat-pool-party/
LOCATION:Private Residence\, VA\, United States
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260909T200000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260909T213000
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-8/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-9/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-10/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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SUMMARY:Monthly Support Group for Mono/Poly Relationships
DESCRIPTION:Monthly coaching support group for relationships where one partner wants monogamy and the other wants nonmonogamy\, led by an expert coach. \n\n\nThis group is designed to offer support for people who are in mixed dynamic relationships in which one partner wants an exclusive relationship\, and another partner wants an open or multiple partner relationship. Meetings are online and last from 1.5 to 2 hours\, depending on the group energy. \nThe current meeting time is the second Wednesday of every month at 5 pm Pacific\, 8pm Eastern time\, beginning February 11. Please contact Dr. Eli at drelisheff@gmail.com with any questions. Sliding scale is available; please contact us at events@tamarapincus.com to discuss it. \nPlease sign up on our Eventbrite page to reserve your spot!\nAbout your facilitator \nDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff (she/her) has researched polyamorous families with children for over 25 years. She is the author of four books\, 30+ peer-reviewed publications\, and 130+ blogs on Psychology Today\, with 10+ years’ experience coaching people facing challenges with CNM and BDSM. Dr. Eli specializes in the mono/CNM mismatch because she intellectualized her fear\, and has been the mono partner in two CNM/mono marriages. Her super-power is combining research findings and trends gleaned from her coaching practice with personal insights to understand if\, when\, and how mono/CNM relationships can work or not.
URL:https://thepincuscenter.com/event/monthly-support-group-for-mono-poly-relationships-11/
LOCATION:Online Event
CATEGORIES:Classes,Eli Sheff,Nonmonogamy
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